A True Story....

This is a story of a friend of mine....

She knew a guy from one of the blogs she usually visits. She was attracted to him in an instance. He was nice to her, was quite a caring person she said and he was different than other guys she knew. So they became friends. This happened like 3 weeks ago. He told her somethings about himself. His personal life and so on. He also said that his health condition was not very good due to his past and he could only be a friend to her or any lady even he's interested in them. And she being so naive and I would say straight, believed him.

Suddently he was gone like for 4-5 days. When he got back he told her that he was hospitalised. She believed him again! From blog they went to Yahoo Messenger. From there they got to know each other more, the more she got to know him the more she got attracted to him. She beginning to think that if she were to marry him, she would take good care of him, to hell with his sickness, thats Gods job and will when He gonna take someone's life.

The next weekend, meaning last Saturday he said he's going to Johor and was supposedly be back by Wednesday. He came back on Monday, he told her he's back early because he was missing her. By then she was like so in love with this person she have not even met.

They were chatting on Tuesday morning, he said he got to go to Kedah, his relative passed away. She asked him why he never asked for her phone number. So he said he was afraid that she might not give him. So she said alright why not he give her his number. Then he said he dont have a personal number. He used it for working purpose and this number is used by all his staff. What??!! She asked him one question. U dont want to give ur number because u have a wife? He said "dah mula dah". So she was like "ok ok sorry just fobia". He asked for her number, he said gonna call her at every stop they make on the way to Kedah. She gave him. No calls. He told her he will be back the next day, he did not.

Wednesday night she was chatting with someone in one of the blogs. The next morning the same person came around again. He was using a nick similer to a nick her so called sweetheart once used. Suddently in the mids of conversation that guy said he will have to follow his boss for a funeral. But then the jenazah just arrived in Tapah. And he also mention 'kesian muda2 dah meninggal'. My friend felt different. She asked that person few questions. He said he didnt know much that he's going to Pahang for the funeral. Well this guy, that my friend's sweetheart mentioned that he is from Pahang. Ermmm something wrong somewhere kan? How can she not see that. So that fellow left for the funeral. She felt miserable the whole day. Sad, worried, missing her so called sweetheart.

That night this guy that she chatted with earlier that afternoon came online on yahoo messenger. She asked him what she were waiting to ask. He said the person that died was about 35-36 yrs old. Fair. Tall. Just like what her sweetheart describe of himself and the pic that she saw before he left for Kedah. Oh yeah he also said that the body was taken to Pahang from Kedah. She was blank, brain dead. She cried. Believing her sweetheart died. She cried to sleep that night. She went to office with a swollen eyes the next morning.

Only the next morning when she could think straight she realised something. A coincident? How could there be so perfect a coincident. Met this stranger online which coincidently went for a funeral of her so called sweetheart. Well he didnt say that it was that guy but by the way he mention it. Who could have think otherwise?

She came to a conclusion. The person she met the 2nd time is the person whom dead it seems. He's a married guy, made a wrong move by not telling her in the first place that he's married. Talk to her as lovers do. Sweet talker kot. Met loads of those on MIRC didnt know kat blog pon ada mcm tu. Lagi teruk dari irc sampai sanggup main ngan maut. Leh laks matikan diri sendiri semata2 nak elakkan dr kantoi.

Well I dont blame that guy, really. How could she be so naive to believe in someone she had not meet? This is not her first time that she got cheated. But again? Poor girl. She'll get over him. She forgive him. But will God forgive him? Thats between him and God. I just hope that he could say sorry to my friend. And admit that he was wrong. He dont have to do that 'drama' and crushed her like that. Im sure she'll be happy with a simple apology.